Supporting Recovery
We recognise that whānau, friends, or support people can be important. Coming to Ashburn means joining a Democratic Therapeutic Community to recover and build resilience. As a whānau, understanding the journey they will be taking will help to guide your support.
Patient Leave
When it becomes appropriate for treatment, a patient may be granted leave. The type and conditions of leave are assessed on a case-by-case basis; discussed within the appropriate therapy groups and arranged in consultation with the clinical team. In some cases, patients may not be able to complete, or even take, the full leave arranged. Although it is difficult not to have raised expectations, whānau should understand that in arranging and taking leave, the patient is making significant progress in their recovery. If whānau have any questions or concerns about hosting a patient on leave, they should contact the clinical staff via reception on 03 476 2092.
Preparing for Discharge
When a patient is ready for discharge from Ashburn, they will hopefully have shown resilience in their recovery. On discharge, duty of care will be passed from Ashburn to an appropriate medical provider. In many cases this will be the patient’s GP. During their time at Ashburn, the patient will hopefully have developed the skills and knowledge necessary to overcome previous challenges and to maintain good mental health. Potential triggers to the person relapsing will have been identified. If appropriate, these will have been discussed in the family meeting, with the aim of whānau supporting recovery by mitigating triggers. Also discussed should be any healthy habits or activities that the person recognises as aiding their recovery.


Supporting Long-term Recovery
Whānau can make a significant difference to the success of maintaining recovery. On discharge from Ashburn, a person will hopefully have developed skills and knowledge necessary to maintain their recovery. This will include an Early Warning Signs Summary that they may elect to share with support people. Whānau may also have learned a great deal about the patient’s treatment journey and so may be able to assist in mitigating potential triggers and avoiding relapse.
Support for the Supporter
Caring for a loved one with mental health issues can be very demanding, distressing and overwhelming. In the lead up to a person being admitted to Ashburn, whānau may be physically and emotionally exhausted. Some may be experiencing their own mental health issues. While a patient is in the care of Ashburn, whānau can use this time to look after their own needs. It may be as simple as reconnecting with friends, resuming neglected leisure activities or just having some quiet time to themselves. It might be that whānau need some support to understand what has happened and to cope with what has happened. There are many support groups available to whānau with such needs. Some examples are:
Yellow Brick Road (formerly Supporting Families)
ABLE Minds (Otago/Southland)
AlAnon
Skylight Trust
You could also seek advice from your GP or other trusted healthcare professional.
